Sunday, January 23, 2011

if i wear a dress that is too big for me, will i seem too small for myself?

7 comments:

Bleeding Healer said...

if you wear a dress that's too big will you be overshadowed by it..when people will look at you,would they see the dress?or the person in that dress? Will largeness overshadowed your small yet significant features..
BH

Sally Ang said...

Why would you wear a oversized dress ....could it be you couldn't afford to buy a fitting dress?? If you feel as big as what you wear, then is going to be ok....but if possible try to wear fitting size clothes becos it covers and give you warmth that you need ;)

anne artist said...

bh, are we overshadowed by what we wear? or maybe the better word would be "shadowed"?

and to s.a., as well, is it easy to really see ourselves? does it happen that we see ourselves as bigger or thinner or older or younger than we are?

and if i "wear" something, even something like doubt or anger, will i feel diminished by that?

Sally Ang said...

Something you wear resembles what you would feel comfortable in ...not to abide to the society norms but to that style of yours ...how you feel for the occasion, how you want to present for that event and how you want to look for that moment ....:)...that is fashion :)

anne artist said...

so i can become my own designer. and i can design what i wear, whether it be clothing or points of view.

yet i wonder, if i chose it, can i be diminished by it?

Sally Ang said...

Well...is hard to say if you will be diminished by it....you got to let the facts and feelings do the balancing acts ....then again....when you get to choose it ....you won't mind being diminished by it ....right??Why should i be bother to know i being make small?? Since in the first place i love it ....and choose it ....btw when you make a choice is it based on your preference for it or ???

anne artist said...

your message reminded me, that i could purposely wear a dress that was too big because i like the look. that the dress could be too big and i could feel just right.......